You DO NOT need likes to feel worthy: Seeking external validation is a maze

In the vast expanse of the universe, we often find ourselves adrift, tethered to the stars of others’ opinions, seeking direction from external shores. But what happens when these stars lead us astray? When the compass of validation we so desperately cling to starts spinning endlessly, leaving us lost in a maze of societal expectations? Let us embark on this voyage together, to discover the magnetic pull of our own essence, and find our way out of the endless labyrinth of external validation.

In the vast tapestry of human existence, there lies a subtle thread, a yearning, known as external validation. It’s the silent whisper of the cosmos, asking: ‘Do you see me? Do I matter?’ External validation is the quest to be recognized, to be affirmed by the world outside our own soul’s sanctuary. It’s a dance, an age-old ritual, where we seek the mirror in others’ eyes, hoping to catch a glimpse of our own reflection, to be told we are worthy.

But why, amidst the infinite galaxies of our inner universe, do we seek this beacon of approval from fellow travelers? The answer, perhaps, lies deep within our ancestral memories. From the dawn of time, humans have been pack creatures, and to be accepted was to be safe, to belong. This primal need has woven its way into our very DNA, making us yearn for…