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Ego in relationships: The effects and how to balance them

Soul Compass
4 min readNov 25, 2023

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Today, we are diving into a topic that influences every relationship but is often misunderstood: the role of the ego. From how it shapes our communication to its impact on emotional intimacy, we’re going to explore the various ways our ego can either make or break our relationships. So let’s get started.

1. Communication Barriers.

Having a strong ego often makes open and honest communication difficult. When the ego is invested in appearing “right” or “better,” it prevents individuals from expressing their true thoughts and feelings. This lack of communication can lead to misunderstandings and ultimately harm the relationship.

2. Conflict Escalation.

An ego-driven individual is more likely to escalate conflicts instead of resolving them. The need to “win” an argument can often overshadow the actual issue at hand, leading to unnecessary fights and bitterness. This disrupts the harmony and peace of a relationship.

3. Emotional Distance.

When the ego is the focal point, individuals are less likely to be emotionally open and vulnerable. This emotional distance can create a sense of loneliness or estrangement between partners, weakening the emotional bonds that hold the…

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